Friday, August 9, 2013

The Creation Just Doesn't Add Up

How is one to believe a story, which starts with an impossibility? From the beginning, “God’s” creation story is flawed. In Genesis 1:28, “God” tells Adam and Eve to be fruitful and multiply. They do. But how, without committing incest, would they have become grandparents, great grandparents, etc.? A two couple minimum was mandatory in the Garden of Eden. Any reproduction between Eve and Cain would’ve been inbreeding.
If the first chapter, first book of the bible is impossible to believe, it’s easy to conclude, there’s no “heaven” nor “hell,” no “god” nor “jesus.” These concepts are entrenched in theories of life and death, presented through hollow biblical stories, providing reason for deceitful comfort or forceful submission. The fictitious stories of the horrors of “hell” or the grandiose fictitious rewards of “heaven” from the dictatorship of a “god” or a “jesus” amount to meddling in our lives - coercion. 

We wouldn’t buy a house without careful review. Yet many are banking on an unseen heaven to spend eternity. Heaven is a concept many of faith enjoy. Remember though, sometimes a wonderful concept turns into a living hell.

Believing and abiding by ridiculous, religious rhetoric to secure a “heavenly” space – really?

Friday, May 31, 2013

Friday, May 24, 2013

Steve Wilkos: Learn How To Treat ALL people properly

Steve Wilkos: Learn How To Treat ALL People Properly - Even Those You Talked To Like Trash Who In Reality ARE Hurting And Are In Need of Help.

Dear Steve,
You appear to be in over your head with your show. And, because you don't know what you don't know - you have no idea what I'm talking about.
I have extensive knowledge in dealing with people and you don't have a clue that you shouldn't embarrass the "bad" person. They will be far more responsive and more likely to admit they need help and seek it out. How would you like someone being so accusatory and have someone yelling in your face and belittling you.
 
The "bad" person is "bad" because of perhaps an inappropriate upbringing. These people, with therapy and care may be able to become better.
 
I wouldn't even listen to you if you were disrespecting me, yelling at me and throwing me off your stage. All this is more of what made them "bad" and it gives them further reason to be a "bad" person.
Why don't you read about psychology and human behavior and interaction.
 
Wouldn't you like to know you helped a "bad" person become a good person, boyfriend, husband or father - or a good person, girlfriend, wife or mother
 
Please consider what I have said.
 
Thank you,
 
Roberta M. Helming 

Brookhaven Resort, TN, Cost $117,000

$117,000 - Cost of 90 Day Brookhaven Retreat in Tennessee
MONEY - MONEY - MONEY - MONEY - MONEY - MONEY!!!
 
I read on their website that you must have a 45 minute phone appointment with a doctor and therapist, at which time you are eligible to come and reeceive treatment for 90 days - of course after you wire them the $117,000 cost - $1300 a day.
 
Don't allow the euphoric high they bring you to in that 45 minutes of rush into signing on the line. A visit is a must not only because of the money, but more importantly it might not in actual terms meet your needs.
 
I had euphoria from speaking with a staff person on the phone, but my visit was frightening, intimidating, hurtful and all those awful things.
 
Consider and try this program for sure, but please make sure you don't feel pressured as I did. When I came there, they had my name on a sign on an observation room door - with the next step of me being in the program - of course only after I wired a major load of cash.
 
I will say that my husband and I went to check the Brookhaven Retreat (traveled 1800 miles round trip) and we have never received a follow up call, an e-mail and while we were there, we never filled out any personal information forms. And no phone conversation with the owner has been possible because she has been in a pertual meeting for five days - no matter what time of day.
 
(We decided to test the waters with regard to all this sweet care we were receiving at Brookhaven Retreat by holidng back on wiring our $117,000 and since we haven't sent the money, all that concern and care has evaporized completely.)
 
Everyone deserves the help they need. But being helped involves finding the right program for you - and there are many, many out there. And if this program proves right for you - that is awesome, but if not, 90 days will turn into an eternity and may leave you in debt for decades while they're taking in 1,117,000 (over a millions dollars every ten admissions.)
 
And once you sign up and start the program - even from an minute up to the end of the first month you want to quit the program, you are into this program for $39,000 (no possible refund for this money.) You will receive (from what I understand) $78,000 of the $117,000 you are required to pay before entering the program if you want to quit.
Ultimately, their care for you ends when you aren't able to wire the full payment of $117,000.
 
From someone who really does care - and not because of money. I write this for free. May you find the care that is truly for you.
 
(Disclaimer: I have no formal training or degree in medicine, psychology or any of the like. I just know when someone isn't treating me in a proper manner.)
 
Roberta M. Helming

Thursday, May 23, 2013

While On Vacation In India, Girls Organs Allegedly Removed For Sale

 An eight-year-old girl lost her internal organs and her life while she and her family, from Britain, vacationed in India. It has not been confirmed, but it is believed those organs were sold - also known as illegal organ trafficking - illegal harvesting in human body parts for the purpose of illegal trade.

The girl had been treated for dehydration in India and according to the family, they were told that the organs were removed as part of the investigation into the cause of death. (It seems a little excessive to determine the cause of death through removal of all her internal organs.)

 While this case has been brought to the public eye, there are unknown, countless numbers of cases which have not been. Illicit organ trafficking is a multi-million dollar a year business. If we're ever going to stop this despicable practice, we need to learn about it as a society, country and world.

The problem, there is so much money involved that it is going to be difficult to break down these "businesses" that rob people, unknowingly and unwillingly of their lives through illicit organ trafficking.

It is a difficult topic that I am unraveling as a attempt to complete a senior/college paper on it.

I plan on writing more about this topic - perhaps after completion of the paper.

I have studied that it is important to be aware of your surroundings and suspicious of unsolicited help when traveling, especially in other countries. For example, if one looks confused in a train station in an unfamiliar country, you might attract an illegal organ procurement "employee" who seems so willing to help you find your way - and that way may end up being his way to an ally to remove your organs and leave your lifeless body. These "kind, helpful" type ultimately dehumanize you - don't see you as a person and coldly remove your organs. These procured organs to them are money - giving them the items of the greedy desires.

Obviously, we can't mistrust everyone when we travel, we just need to be more aware of not only the surroundings, but the people therein.

© Roberta M. Helming  

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

A Potential Money Pit?

My husband and and I don't understand why we have not received a note/email addressing our visit from Connecticut to Tennessee for the sole purpose of touring the Brookhaven Retreat. This lack of correspondence is highly unprofessional. There main concern appears to be purely and only about the money.  What do they do that is worth  $1300 a day? I don't know - even having visited there.
 
We were prepared to pay $234,000 for single room treatment for 90 days.  And because I wanted a private room - the norm is to share a room - I was going to have to pay $234,000 versus the sharing rate of $117,000 and they weren't able to show me a room . . . go figure.It seems like a lot of money to spend for a retreat that has not emailed us once . As  a business women, I thank people for coming across town to consider doing business with me. We travelled 900 miles and received no acknowledgement. Do they even get what proper business etiquette is, as it pertains to Brookhaven Retreat? A brief note takes literally a couple of minutes and it is meaningful and shows care about potential clients and that it is not just money. Someone may not come to this facility now (after a visit) but they may in the future. Hence the need for some kind of follow-up.
 
I was not told that a woman who was blocking me on the left side of my body, while blocking the door so I apparently wouldn't leave was a therapist in disguise - since she didn't introduce herself. I didn't learn of her status as a therapist until I was blocked (door shut) in an observation room. I was tricked. As someone who has no active emotional issues, mainly childhood PTSD fear with NO substance abuse problems, she had a legal obligation to identify her occupation to me. I came to visit from the perspetive of having fear and didn't need to be observed. I came for a visit with a MD and wasn't inclined to unnecessarily see a PhD.
 
The conduct of bringing this therapist into my visit was out-of-line and heavy handed, since at the last minutes of my visit I was told she was "my therapist." I wasn't even in the program yet and had not even decided to actually do the program. And when they took me to "my" observation room, there was a sign with my name on it already on the door - presumptuous indeed - personified.
 
It was in the observation room where we were asked on what day we were going to wire $234,000 and that we needed to act quickly as rooms were filling up.
 
I have the right not to reveal  anything regarding my mental issues to anyone including anyone at this facility. My behavior was professional and proper. Fortunately, I have these therapist all figured out and she didn't obtain any confidential information by her back door attempt.
 
And why were we told there were no men at this facility when the first person we met at the facility was a man is beyond me? I was assured there were no men before I journeyed 900 miles one way.
 
The apparent goal of Brookhaven Retreat is to get a minimum of $117,000 out of you and lure you into a program for which you receive a basic tour and know very little about the actual structure and how your own case will be handled. An example: This back door therapist I was tricked into dealing with should show what is really going to go on in this program - a lot of behind the back actions.
 
Unless your willing to be treated like you have mental illness, when just looking to polish a few skills, this isn't the place for you. The first thing you do is get treated like a rat under five days of observation to make sure you're not a threat. I personally refused that unnecessary procedure, as well as their heavy handed in-your-face approach to obtaining their "wired" money.
To Brookhaven Retreat: Take the sign down on the observattion door - the one with my name on it. Your kind of care is far, far too inapprpriate for me. I have columns to write - scholarly writing to complete advocacy work to do, work with my local veterans.
 
Roberta M. Helming

Sunday, May 19, 2013

Roberta M. Helming: Steve Wilkos: Learn How to Properly Treat "Bad" People

Steve Wilkos: Learn How to Properly Treat "Bad" People

Dear Steve,

You appear to be in over your head with your show. And, because you don't know what you don't know - you have no idea what I'm talking about.

I have extensive knowledge in dealing with people and you don't have a clue that you shouldn't embarrass the "bad" person. They will be far more responsive and more likely to admit they need help and seek it out. How would you like someone being so accusatory and have someone yelling in your face and belittling you.

The "bad" person is "bad" because of perhaps an inappropriate upbringing. These people, with therapy and care may be able to become better.

I wouldn't even listen to you if you were disrespecting me, yelling at me and throwing me off your stage. All this is more of what made them "bad" and it gives them further reason to be a "bad" person.

Why don't you read about psychology and human behavior and interaction.

Wouldn't you like to know you helped a "bad" person become a good person, boyfriend, husband or father - or a good person, girlfriend, wife or mother

Please consider what I have said.

Thank you,

Roberta M. Helming 

Thursday, May 9, 2013

VOTE FOR KREE HARRISON: THE BEST OF THE BEST OF SEASON 2013!


Kree Harrison

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Friday, March 15, 2013

Begging for Food on Amtrak . . . in America?!? Not Even Two Crackers?!? Really?!?

What's happening? Great question. On a recent cross country Amtrak train ride, it became apparent that I needed food. I showed my room attendant my shaking hands and due to requiring accommodation for mobility issues which caused an inability to "go to the food car downstairs" as I was directed by said room attendant, "no" (food) was his final answer.

Shortly thereafter, I fainted. My legs were in the isle and my body was inside my bedroom romette. When I began coming around, it was so magical - there was the food I needed before when I was pleading for just a couple of crackers. All very traumatic and embarassing. (And as a result, I had to leave the train and rest for a few days in a hotel in Kansas.)

Who would ever imagine that Amtrak would decline a shaking woman begging for food and then claim no fault and take no responsibility?

I am legally disabled and when my husband made sure I was safely on the train, I don't believe he imagined that Amtrak would neglect his wife - after all, she made her disability known to Amtrak and her tickets clearly read disability.

As I reflect on Amtrak and what they have said and done since this incident, I see a very generic apology letter - one more appropriate for a backed up toilet. Another letter stated that because I have diabetes "it doesn't appear that Amtrak was liable for the incident." I've never, ever had diabetes. (And if you think about it, what difference does it make when the problem was denying food to a pleading woman. If food were provided when asked for, I wouldn't be writing this - diabetes or not.)

Further, I had another Amtrak employee tell me "this happens all the time on Amtrak.” (Is that in fact something you wish to share Amtrak?)

And, I had an attorney tell me if I had died due to this I would have a case - fortunately or maybe not, I lived and so the same actions that could have led to death turned out well and I'm alive. It is therefore not Amtrak’s problem.

In reaching out to have my needs met, based on my disability, I would pull the call button. It was ignored and in one case it was ignored for 45 minutes.

My bed in my room was left down until noon and I kept hitting my head on it. The room attendant ignored my request to put the bed up. Sometime later, it was put up with a crow bar.

My advice to potential travelers on a cross country Amtrak trip, be prepared to have to accommodate your own needs. These workers in my roomette area were nowhere to be found, ignoring my calls for assistance.

Since my room attendant didn't seem to know that when I was begging for food and my hands and arms were shaking he needed to act, I would advise travelers with issues to not travel alone. It is likely you will need someone to assist you.

It's scary to be on a moving train, in the dark and no help or assistance in sight.

And since Amtrak, based on a $2000 ticket/fare couldn't give me a couple of crackers, be sure to carry your own food. I waited for breakfast (included) for over two hours and it never came.

Somehow it seems that these Amtrak workers don't realize they are dealing with real life and human beings. Travelers on Amtrak need to come to their trip prepared. Once something happens, it is too late and no one at Amtrak cares, especially so when there is no access to any management level personnel. They are kept well hidden.

Amtrak Management: My call button has been on long enough. Begging for food on your trains in America, really? Own up to how wrong this incident was and then get your personnel some basic medical training/knowledge.

It must feel good to you to know that your employees can do anything they want – even at the expense of the safety of the passengers.

And don’t you know that in America, you are not permitted to ignore the needs of disabled passengers – especially when they have been made known? And that is exactly what led to this incident – I absolutely was ignored and denied the staple I needed – food.

Tuesday, October 16, 2012

WE MUST NOT VOTE FOR ROMNEY

Roberta M. Helming

1:35 PM - Public
WE MUST NOT VOTE FOR ROMNEY . . .

Romney has lost his heart and he doesn't care to find it.

Anyone who truly feels that Romney cares about Americans is seriously misled. Yes, he smiles now with his rolled up sleeves. Those sleeves willNOT be rolled up if elected. They'll be no tour bus compassion.

I didn't see anyone in need - the elderly, disabled, the miliary, the poor - anyone whom he could really help during his presidenial Republic National Convention.

I've read he's kissed up to the wealthy to obtain more campaign money. Why doesn't he sell some of his six houses.

And are we supposed to believe that these wealthy donors aren't going to expect things in return? Money that could help the poor and needy will in fact go to causes of these wealthy donors.

He's not for the average American. He's not for the poor, handicapped, military and those who are trying to get by on social security and maybe a small pension - people who did the right thing and never imagined themselves in such dire straights.

Don't make these people suffer any more. Don't cast your all important vote for Romney.

Think about you, your family, your neighbor. Romney doesn't know or care that you exist. He never will. A vote for Romney is a vote against you, your loved ones and friends.

Really think about that one vote you can cast and think about yourself, your needs . . . Romney doesn't care.

Friday, September 28, 2012

Mitt Romney is Totally Out-Of-Touch With Real Americans In Need

Roberta M. Helming: Romney Would Be An Out-Of-Touch President

We, who are not of his "circle" will be the "dogs" on his roof during his presidency, as with his poor dog Seamus.

How can we elect someone who bullied his fellow school mates? How can be excuse the fact that he cut off a schoomates hair - a major bullying act?

How can we accept the fact that he didn't invite Veterans - those who fought for his freedom and ours - on to his Republican National Convention Stage?

Do we honestly believe that his weathly lifestyle won't be sustained in the White House?

In such an important election, we must face that most people are struggling and Romney is not. Romney is so far out of touch with the people of American and the meager means they must live with, he won't be able to see beyond his privileged status and know what the anwers for us are. Because if we think about it, don't we usually surround ourselves with those who are like us and of life mind. His mind is not like the majority (average) Americans.

Who will live in Romney's numerous mansions while he is in the White House?

Why was he allowed to be excused from the draft so many times?

Why does his church accept his tithings when it is reported he earned his money in ways of which they didn't approve? I guess it says alot about money versus morality.

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Roberta M. Helming: Romney, Veterans and the "Little" Guy

Roberta M. Helming: Please remember all the Veterans who made sacrifices - some the ultimate sacrifce, so that Romney could have multiple deferments during the Vietnam War and subsequently live the American dream (that eludes many) by owning many properties and possessing great wealth - God Bless America, for I know the true meaning of wealth, as many Veterans do I'm sure. I'm talking about wealth of a non-material nature that is built on a strong foundation from within one's mind and heart. Many of us know how to live without a lot - Romney's inner foundation depends upon money and material possessions, which are very hollow. His fall would result in difficulty having to learn to live without his false sense of happiness wrapped up in the financial prosperity that is dear to his heart and clearly defines him.
Romney is not for the "little" guy, because he can't relate to them. He needs to live (for a minimum of a week) the life of those of us who struggle, so that if elected president, he knows our pain, struggles and suffering - as every day citizens.
And I'm not referring to people who just don't try to help themselves, but rather people who worked a career during a time when inflation was not so high. In this country, we have retirees who can't pay their bills and buy their medicine - it's a choice at best, because their retirement income was never enough and they haven't received a raise in a decade in some cases.
Does Romney care about that? Does he care to know about that?
 
 
 

Roberta M. Helming: Romney and the "Little" Guy/ Veterans

Roberta M. Helming: Please remember all the Veterans who made sacrifices - some the ultimate sacrifce, so that Romney could have multiple deferments during the Vietnam War and subsequently live the American dream (that eludes many) by owning many properties and possessing great wealth - God Bless America, for I know the true meaning of wealth, as many Veterans do I'm sure. I'm talking about wealth of a non-material nature that is built on a strong foundation from within one's mind and heart. Many of us know how to live without a lot - Romney's inner foundation depends upon money and material possessions, which are very hollow. His fall would result in difficulty having to learn to live without his false sense of happiness wrapped up in the financial prosperity that is dear to his heart and clearly defines him.
Romney is not for the "little" guy, because he can't relate to them. He needs to live (for a minimum of a week) the life of those of us who struggle, so that if elected president, he knows our pain, struggles and suffering - as every day citizens.
And I'm not referring to people who just don't try to help themselves, but rather people who worked a career during a time when inflation was not so high. In this country, we have retirees who can't pay their bills and buy their medicine - it's a choice at best, because their retirement income was never enough and they haven't received a raise in a decade in some cases.
Does Romney care about that? Does he care to know about that?
 
 
 

Monday, September 3, 2012

 

Roberta M. Helming - Romney and 2012 Election

Roberta M. Helming: Romney placed Seasmus (his dog on the Roof of his Car,) Romney had multiple deferments from Vietnam, Romney didn't mention the War at the Republican National Convention, Romney presented Olympic Athletes as Average America People at the Repulican National Convention - Why Not Some Senior Citizens or Veterans?, Romney Has Multiple Houses, Romney gave $40 Thousand Dollars To His Church Last Year and Yet He Had Dealings With Companies His Church Didn't Approve of - I Guess They Weren't "Ungodly" companies - If He Can't Obey The "Godly" doctrine of His Church, How Can We Know He Will Do The Right Thing as President? After all Both His Faith and The American People Are Important to Him?
Will, We Who Are Among The Suffering American People Be Riding On the Roof of Romney's "Presidency/Car" (words that are interchangeable) as his poor dog Seamus had to do?
Please think about it.

Things to Remember about Mitt Romney

Roberta M. Helming: Mitt Romney 2012 Presidental Election

Roberta M. Helming: Mitt Romney 2012 Presidental Election

With regard to Jerry Springer and those in need, living in trailer parks, at least Jerry Springer attempts to help these people and is sensitive to their needs. He even offers counseling if needed.

Further, he talks to them and helps thems understand their issues by asking them what might be wrong with their situation.

I am quite certain that Mitt Romney is shaking the hands of people in trailer parks now and will never speak to them again or follow up with them in any manner.

He doesn't even understand their issues and since he brought US Olympic Athletes to the Republican Convention and not one from a struggling population to the Convention, he gives a very negative impression to those who are suffering that he doesn't care about them.

Roberta M. Helming - 2012 Presidential Election

Roberta M. Helming: The 2012 Presidential Election:

Roberta M. Helming: Please know that if Mitt Romney is elected President and you have any problems thereafter in your trailer park, it won't be Mitt Romney who is going to help you - it will still be Jerry Springer - from a faithful watcher of Jerry, Jerry, Jerry!

Friday, July 6, 2012

Was Mary a Virgin?

Was Mary really a virgin? I don't believe in parables. I need concrete evidence that Mary was in fact a virgin. Do we have any gynecological proof?

If someone was pregnant today and said they were a virgin, we say: "yeah right.".

The story of Jesus beging born to Mary a virgin is interesting to ponder, but in the end it is a difficult tale to reconcile.

It's loaded with "magic" amd is something I would like to receive a concrete answer filled with believable proof.

Don't pray for me - my God takes care of me with love and without judgment. And in order to sit in judgment you would have to know my heart and my mind and that is not possible.

Also, no one likes to be preached at and told this is the way without proof. Speaking to people from your own perspective, and not talking forcefully because you know the truth, will yield better results . . . as will speaking humbly and not as though you have the only correct answers - which if not followed will result in going to hell.

You have to speak to people with patients, allowing them to take in what is being said. All in someone's face will cause them to not listen and rebel.

Roberta M. Helming

Sunday, July 1, 2012

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