Sunday, January 9, 2011

Remember babies have some basic necessities

Remember babies have some basic necessities

By By ROBERTA M. HELMING
Norwich Bulletin
Posted Jan 06, 2011 @ 12:00 AM

I was surprised to learn that there are single mothers who cannot provide a simple basic need for their babies — diapers.

The problem came to light last June when Huggies launched a campaign called “Every Little Bottom” to draw attention to this need. It came about as a result of a thorough study by the company that included interviews with 2,500 women nationwide and in Canada.

Ninety-nine percent of the women participating in the study saw diapers as a basic need, but one in three said they couldn’t afford diapers without having to give up some other basic need.

A Nov. 28 story in the Norwich Bulletin reported on a group establishing the first diaper bank in northeastern Connecticut. In Putnam, the bank also will serve the communities of Thompson, Pomfret and Woodstock.

The Putnam facility opened this week, so there are no statistics available as to the actual need for this kind of service. However, a diaper bank in New Haven serves 4,000 clients — and the need is even greater, according to Joanne Goldblum who runs the New Haven facility, is a founder of the national Diaper Bank project and is a champion of the cause.

Huggies donated 2 million diapers to the North Haven facility. According to Goldblum, that met the need of clients for one month.

In order to qualify for free diapers, the mother must be qualified for state assistance or local social service agency services. Homeless families are eligible as well.

Real trouble

But the problem goes deeper. Having a baby without having the financial means to support the basic needs of raising a child is irresponsible. Readers posting comments on the Bulletin’s website seemed dismayed that women with babies cannot afford something as basic as diapers. I, too, am dismayed.

Granted, there are circumstances beyond someone’s control that can put people in difficult financial positions, especially in these current economic times, and no one would deny anyone a helping hand in troubled times. But let’s be honest, a fair share of those needing this kind of assistance are not new to the social service networks.

I’m not pushing marriage or abstinence, and certainly how others chose to live their lives is none of my business nor that of society’s — until society is forced to pick up the bill for those irresponsible choices.
Babies have basic needs — financial, physical and emotional — that must be met. Those are responsibilities that need to be met by the parents.

Roberta M. Helming is a freelance writer from Ledyard and regular contributor to the Norwich Bulletin. She can be reached at RMHelming@aol.com

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